Affectionately known as “Granny Pat” to all who knew and loved her, Pat was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and great-great-grandmother. She shared 64 years of marriage with her beloved husband, who preceded her in death. Together, they built a lifetime of love, family, and cherished memories. Her grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren were truly the light of her life, and nothing brought her more joy than spending time with her family.
Pat spent the majority of her life as a homemaker, pouring her heart into caring for those she loved. She was a wonderful cook who especially enjoyed preparing meals for family gatherings and holidays. She was famous among her children’s and grandchildren’s friends for her unforgettable chocolate gravy and homemade biscuits. Her kitchen was a place where everyone was welcome, no one left hungry, and countless memories were made.
A talented seamstress with a remarkable gift for making something out of nothing, Pat could turn the simplest ingredients into a delicious meal or a piece of fabric into something beautiful. She had a special way of making the most of what she had, and she did it all with love.
Pat also enjoyed her time working at the flower shop, where she spent many long days and late nights alongside her dear, longtime friend, Melba Crane. What may have seemed like work to others became years of treasured memories, laughter, and lasting friendship.
One of Pat’s greatest joys was cheering on those she loved. Whether attending ballgames, school programs, or other special activities, she was always one of the biggest fans in the crowd. She took great pride in her family and never missed an opportunity to show her love and support.
Granny Pat leaves behind a lifetime of precious memories, cherished family traditions, and a legacy of love that will live on for generations. She will be remembered for the warmth of her kitchen, the talents of her hands, the generosity of her heart, and the countless ways she made everyone around her feel loved.
She will be loved always, remembered forever, and missed beyond words.
She is survived by her daughters June Warren of Lakeland, Florida, Patricia DeVille of Wister, Oklahoma, Phyllis & Jimmy Goodnight of Wister, Oklahoma, her son Lester & Sheryl Ford of Wister, Oklahoma, her sons-in-law James Lynch of Poteau, Oklahoma & Danny Bullard of Poteau, Oklahoma, her daughter-in-law Betty Ford of Poteau, Oklahoma, her special sister-in-law Shirley Coffee of Red Oak, Oklahoma, her 12 grandchildren, 25 great grandchildren, & 14 great-great grandchildren, along with numerous nieces, nephews, loved ones, & friends.
She is preceded in death by her parents, her husband Eual Ford, her daughters Jeanne Lynch & Lori Bullard, her son Ricky Ford, her grandsons Spencer Lynch & Patrick Lynch, her great-grandson Parker Dolph, her brothers Raymond “Buddy” Tucker & Bill Tucker, and her sisters Dorothy Dubois, Francis James.
The Celebration of Life Services for Pat will be held 1:30pm – Wednesday, October 14, 2026, at The Cedars on Dewey 520 Dewey Ave Poteau, Oklahoma with TJ Holt, Brother Sam Walden, and Pastor Phil McGehee officiating and burial to follow at Ellis Chapel Cemetery in Wister, Oklahoma. The Family of Pat Ford will greet friends from 5pm – 7pm on Tuesday, October 13, 2026, also at The Cedars on Dewey. Casket bearers will be Gene Coffey, Eric Dolph, Chris Bullard, Dylan Gregory, Hoyt Dolph, and Chasen Bullard. Honorary Casket bearers will be James Lynch, John Robert Warren, Danny Bullard, and Bud Morgan.
Online condolences can be made at www.holtfuneralandcremation.com
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